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Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Jill Scott - Blessed (Official Video) This is my theme song for September!!!!
This is a very uplifting song and I sing it in the morning driving to work. I love Jill Scott, in fact her first album is the theme song for my love life. I'm so in love.......
And so BLESSED!!!!!! Sing it Jill!!!
Ask yourself, what do you want? And what are you looking to give up to get it?
Good Afternoon,
I know I been MIA for a few days but I been handlin some business. Throughout, this time I been missing I been experiencing some really good convo with men. Althought the convo is good, I know some of it is game. I usually let a brotha know, im not sleeping with you no time soon so all this game is being spit in vain.
Unfortunately, I have a jaded view of all the shit that men say to me....or should I say fortunately? Basically I just want to see actions, no more going off of words alone. I know that is very clever of me right? Actions speak louder!!!
I know I been MIA for a few days but I been handlin some business. Throughout, this time I been missing I been experiencing some really good convo with men. Althought the convo is good, I know some of it is game. I usually let a brotha know, im not sleeping with you no time soon so all this game is being spit in vain.
Unfortunately, I have a jaded view of all the shit that men say to me....or should I say fortunately? Basically I just want to see actions, no more going off of words alone. I know that is very clever of me right? Actions speak louder!!!
God is a funny dude sometimes. But I know he loves me.
Over the past few days I have had the pleasure of being delighted by the feeling of what I call love. Its been a combination of openness and acceptance. A feeling of yes in spite of every no from my past. A sense of "better off", having left "worse off" miles behind. I'm amazed today that God let someone come close to loving me like he does, and like my father should have.
I mentioned my father but I don't really have a father. Of course my mother was married to a man and they made me and I'm here but my father has never taken care of me, he has never hugged me. He never said I love you. I was never any mans, "baby girl". I believe that every woman's first love should be her father. If your heart doesn't know true and unconditional love from a man as a child, from your father, step father, uncle or some man who is close to you. She will likely have a life full of accepting anything as love. And that is no good.
I say God is a funny dude because he doesn't just lay things out for us making things plain to see and recognize. He makes us practice faith.
I mentioned my father but I don't really have a father. Of course my mother was married to a man and they made me and I'm here but my father has never taken care of me, he has never hugged me. He never said I love you. I was never any mans, "baby girl". I believe that every woman's first love should be her father. If your heart doesn't know true and unconditional love from a man as a child, from your father, step father, uncle or some man who is close to you. She will likely have a life full of accepting anything as love. And that is no good.
I say God is a funny dude because he doesn't just lay things out for us making things plain to see and recognize. He makes us practice faith.
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KEEP IT 100 AND TAKE YOUR OWN ADVICE!! A quick thought....
When we start talking to/ seeing a person that we would like to date we always ask them to keep it 100 with us right? So when they do if its something that we dont particularly like, why do we hate them for it? Why do we ask for shit we really dont even want. If we are agreeing to kick it with someone, that means we like them right??? Or does it just mean we wanna play a lil game. I personally only kick it with people that I like. Cause anything less is just not worth the time it it takes.
Sunday, July 15, 2012
Love and Hip Hop Atlanta
Better that I post my opinionated blog about this show Late than Never. VH1 will stop at nothing to have the raunchiest, most unbelievably ghetto shit on TV as possible. And they will certainly not be beat. No class at all!!! It sort of reminds me of 90's talk shows like, "The Richard Bey Show". This show was where Jerry Springer got his ideas from. Fights breaking out left and right. People doing and saying the craziest things. And here we go again thanks to VH1.
This here is the shit you watch when you want to see how NOT to be as a woman. There is nothing wrong with being beautiful in what ever way you see fit. But the acceptable womanizing and women trying to seem classy but no matter the amount of money they just cant achieve it. I just caint!!!!
Lets start with Mimi. I feel like why not aspire to be, do, and have more in life? Okay you're a mother. Oh im sorry, you're a rich mother. Since you are not a wife you need to start building things of your own for yourself. I'm trying to figure out how you are gonna dis the man who butters both sides of your bread? Oh sure he has to pay your for his child but how does that make her any different from the rest of his baby mamas? I dont know? Well okay she is on a VH1 show.
Rasheeda, she is a pretty woman. I dont have shit else to say about her cuz I aint never heard of her and I am a self proclaimed HIP HOP Head.
Karlie, This is the one dating LA Reid's son. How do you say.......user!!!!
K. Michelle now this is about the only female on the show that I have some respect for because I heard her on a few mix tapes. I didnt really know her story before now but im glad she made it through and shes starting over.
Joseline, where the hell should I begin, she's a stripper. Shes got a plastic booty and plastic tits. I think she raps in Spanish and she is in love with Stevie J.
Erica, Lil Scrappy baby mama, not a smart woman in my opinion, aint shit without her weave. Nuff said.
Mama D, somebody done told this chick wrong as hell. A ex pimp and dope slinger, this bitch act like she worked her way through college waiting tables while taking care of two boys.
NO BITCH YOU DIDNT DO SHIT NOBLE, YOU WAS SLINGIN ROCK AND PIMPIN HOES. Somebody needs to humble themselves.
Lil Scrappy, okay he's a cutie, I dont see shit else about him. Nothing!
Stevie J, oh brother!
Shay Johnson, this chick 15 min of fame flame blew out after charm school, wtf is she doing on this show?
In conclusion, I feel that the original Love and HIP HOP is much classier even with Chrissy threatening to fuck a bitch up all the time. I have nothing against ATL, its like a second home to me but these chicks need a reality check. Cant wait for the reunion tho. I mean what will Erica say when she sees the show and Scrappy been all over Shay's ass? Or what will Mimi think when she sees Stevie drop Joseline off at , "the clinic". Well I guess we will see.
PEACE!!!
This here is the shit you watch when you want to see how NOT to be as a woman. There is nothing wrong with being beautiful in what ever way you see fit. But the acceptable womanizing and women trying to seem classy but no matter the amount of money they just cant achieve it. I just caint!!!!
Lets start with Mimi. I feel like why not aspire to be, do, and have more in life? Okay you're a mother. Oh im sorry, you're a rich mother. Since you are not a wife you need to start building things of your own for yourself. I'm trying to figure out how you are gonna dis the man who butters both sides of your bread? Oh sure he has to pay your for his child but how does that make her any different from the rest of his baby mamas? I dont know? Well okay she is on a VH1 show.
Rasheeda, she is a pretty woman. I dont have shit else to say about her cuz I aint never heard of her and I am a self proclaimed HIP HOP Head.
Karlie, This is the one dating LA Reid's son. How do you say.......user!!!!
K. Michelle now this is about the only female on the show that I have some respect for because I heard her on a few mix tapes. I didnt really know her story before now but im glad she made it through and shes starting over.
Joseline, where the hell should I begin, she's a stripper. Shes got a plastic booty and plastic tits. I think she raps in Spanish and she is in love with Stevie J.
Erica, Lil Scrappy baby mama, not a smart woman in my opinion, aint shit without her weave. Nuff said.
Mama D, somebody done told this chick wrong as hell. A ex pimp and dope slinger, this bitch act like she worked her way through college waiting tables while taking care of two boys.
NO BITCH YOU DIDNT DO SHIT NOBLE, YOU WAS SLINGIN ROCK AND PIMPIN HOES. Somebody needs to humble themselves.
Lil Scrappy, okay he's a cutie, I dont see shit else about him. Nothing!
Stevie J, oh brother!
Shay Johnson, this chick 15 min of fame flame blew out after charm school, wtf is she doing on this show?
In conclusion, I feel that the original Love and HIP HOP is much classier even with Chrissy threatening to fuck a bitch up all the time. I have nothing against ATL, its like a second home to me but these chicks need a reality check. Cant wait for the reunion tho. I mean what will Erica say when she sees the show and Scrappy been all over Shay's ass? Or what will Mimi think when she sees Stevie drop Joseline off at , "the clinic". Well I guess we will see.
PEACE!!!
Sunday, July 1, 2012
I've had it with men; or have I?
Well for once, Im not mad at myself or anyone else for not wanting to put up with another person's ways and actions. It can tend to be a bit much for some, and for others I guess they just want to be in a relationship. Which brings me to my point, I never used to believe a person when they said they were single by choice. I always thought that translated to, "I dont like anyone who likes me and the people I like dont like me". But now I see the true meaning of being single by choice because that is what I am. Sure I have dates, but it is strictly because I want to have a good time, not to lead to anything serious. At this point in my life I am honestly repulsed by the thought of a man being in my life and getting so, "comfy" with me that he does things like fart around me. Maybe this just means that I dont want anything like even remotly resembles what ive had in the past. Or maybe it means im getting to be set in my own ways. Whatever it is or whatever it means I am a happy girl.
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